I have some similar thoughts. As I said in the op, at first I thought the committee would would just choose the most feature rich, or extensible software, and enable various features as the forum and community grows, over time. But after some early complaints, I had hoped that discussing features first, would encourage people who seemed to think they had no voice, to be part of the process. I want it to be fair.
But we will get started this week, I promise!
I don't expect we will try to indulge everyone. I expect we will follow the tradition of open source development, and discuss things together, reach concensus, and create what makes the most sense.
If anyone thinks that just posting their request will result in that feature coming out in the new forum, it might not. These features listed here will be guidelines for the committee. We will try to include as many as possible. But it might not be p ossible. And if someone really, really, really wants a certain feature, but doesn't want to participate in the committee, ready to discuss why they think it's so important, it's not likely to happen.