Since I'm not a developer, I don't know for sure. But I would guess that it's by design that each object gets its own unique identifying number. You can actually give objects any kind of ID you want, but I suspect if you named 2 objects by the same name, it would add _0 or something else behind it, so that it's unique.
Well, we certainly took the long way around, but you may have identified why Inkscape is running slow, as well as the reason not to make a clone of a clone of a clone of a clone, etc. That can cause serious problems in a file, besides just slowing it down.
You should always reselect the parent object, to create a new clone. If you need many clones, you can use the Tiled Clones dialog, and just make an array of many clones, all at once.
Also, if you need to locate the parent of a clone, you can select the clone, and do Shift + d. Inkscape will draw a dashed line to the parent, and also select the parent. Then the dashed line disappears.
Edit
Actually I might have misunderstood.
If copy/paste operation is used then it looks different. text1156 becomes text1156_0, the next one from previous text1156_0_1, next text1156_0_1_2
By that quote above, do you mean you're copy/pasting clones? I'm not sure why you would do that, rather than just make another clone? But I guess it should not cause any problems.