Oh, sorry for misunderstanding.
I think it's a valid point: "third parties need Illustrator compatible EPS..."
But since I don't understand you clearly, it's hard to give advice about what to do. I think it would be better if you discuss directly with developers. You can do that on either the development mailing list or the users' mailing list.
Filing a bug report, is for a situation where you have a very specific issue, either a bug or a specific feature to request. In this case, it sounds more like you either want or need a discussion about making Inkscape EPS compatible with Illustrator, and whether it should be native or not. And the mailing list would be the best place for that.
After you've had a discussion, you can decide whether it sounds like the developers are thinking like you, or thinking different. Or it's possible that some developers agree with you, and others don't. (I don't know what they think, but I'll be interested to learn.) Or maybe there's already some kind of project being worked on, and I just haven't heard of it yet.
Anyway, if they are thinking like you, then you can make a feature request. However, there's a chance the developers might say they don't think making AI compatible EPS should be a native feature. If that's the result, maybe you could try and contact the author of that extension. Maybe the author would be interested to extend it to gradient mesh or even more?
I'm pretty sure you can send a message to the list without subscribing to the list, but I'm not positive.